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How to Stop Chasing Love, and Start Feeling Secure
Explore why needing, controlling, or chasing love doesn’t create true connection. Learn how to stop over-functioning and start building secure, mutual relationships.

Krista Lachapelle
May 193 min read
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How to Stop Catastrophizing in Relationships
Learn how catastrophizing damages relationships and why anxious spirals after conflict are common. Get tools to reframe, reconnect, and build secure love.

Krista Lachapelle
May 194 min read
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The Emotional Labor Many Women Carry Alone in Relationships
Why are women so often the emotional glue in relationships, planning, initiating, fixing, trying, until they finally burn out? Here’s what happens when connection becomes one-sided, and how real partnership can begin again.

Krista Lachapelle
May 173 min read
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How to Reconnect When Your Relationship Feels Distant
Disconnection in a relationship doesn’t mean it’s over. It’s a sign to slow down, turn toward each other, and begin again. Here's how to find your way back before it feels too late.

Krista Lachapelle
May 163 min read
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How to Rebuild Connection When Your Marriage Feels Cold
Feeling emotionally distant from your partner? Learn how to rebuild intimacy, trust, and emotional safety in your relationship using attachment-informed strategies and simple, powerful reconnection tools.

Krista Lachapelle
May 163 min read
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Divorce Isn’t a Failure. How We Built a New Kind of Family.
Divorce doesn’t mean your family failed. This blog explores how to redefine motherhood, build peaceful co-parenting dynamics, and create a new kind of love , one rooted in truth, integrity, and lasting connection.

Krista Lachapelle
May 153 min read
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Lonely in a Good Marriage, And What Finally Made Me Leave
Not all marriages end in betrayal or chaos. Some end in quiet grief, the kind that builds when you’ve smiled through the emptiness for too long. This is the story of a relationship that looked perfect on paper but left me starving for connection. And what it means to finally choose truth over appearances, even when the world thinks you already have everything.

Krista Lachapelle
May 153 min read
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The Rise of AI Companionship, and the Crisis of Human Disconnection
People are turning to AI for connection, not just convenience. Explore how this trend reveals a growing crisis of loneliness, especially for boys, and what real secure attachment offers instead.

Krista Lachapelle
May 154 min read
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Is It Chemistry, or a Wound? The Je Ne Sais Quoi Effect
Attraction can feel powerful; but not all sparks are safe. Learn how to tell the difference between true connection and trauma-based chemistry with this grounded guide.

Krista Lachapelle
May 143 min read
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Dating After Divorce; What No One Tells Men About Healing First
Feeling lost in dating after divorce? You’re not alone. Here’s what no one tells men about healing first, before swiping, chasing, or starting over.

Krista Lachapelle
May 122 min read
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Dogs Don’t Ghost You: What Our Pets Teach Us About Secure Love
Ghosting leaves us confused, anxious, and doubting our worth. But dogs? Dogs never disappear without a trace. They teach us what secure love really looks like: present, loyal, and unafraid of closeness. This isn’t just about pets, it’s about healing our attachment wounds and learning how love should feel. Read on for a cozy, surprising take on what your dog already knows about connection.

Krista Lachapelle
May 123 min read
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Texting Isn’t Just Texting. It’s Emotional Energy
Texting is how we talk now, and how we build emotional connection. Here's why thoughtful messaging matters in modern relationships, and how to do it with clarity and care.

Krista Lachapelle
May 112 min read
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What My Neurodivergent Son Taught Me About Connection
What if neurodivergence held the key to secure attachment? A raw, thoughtful reflection on ghosting, presence, and emotional safety, from a mother and counsellor's heart.

Krista Lachapelle
May 92 min read
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