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How to Rebuild Connection When Your Marriage Feels Cold
Feeling emotionally distant from your partner? Learn how to rebuild intimacy, trust, and emotional safety in your relationship using attachment-informed strategies and simple, powerful reconnection tools.

Krista Lachapelle
May 163 min read
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Lonely in a Good Marriage, And What Finally Made Me Leave
Not all marriages end in betrayal or chaos. Some end in quiet grief, the kind that builds when you’ve smiled through the emptiness for too long. This is the story of a relationship that looked perfect on paper but left me starving for connection. And what it means to finally choose truth over appearances, even when the world thinks you already have everything.

Krista Lachapelle
May 153 min read
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Why Moving On After Divorce Feels So Hard, And What Helps
Moving on after separation or divorce can feel paralyzing, not because you're weak, but because your nervous system is still wired for safety, familiarity, and fear of loss. Here’s why it’s scary, and how to move forward with self-compassion and support.

Krista Lachapelle
May 153 min read
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Why Attachment Isn’t Just Personal, It’s Psychosocial
Attachment isn’t just about your past. Learn how your inner world and the social systems around you shape connection, and how healing must address both.

Krista Lachapelle
May 143 min read
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You Don’t Need to Be Fixed. You Need to Be Understood.
Think you’re emotionally broken? You’re not. You’re dysregulated. Here’s why your nervous system is behind your patterns, and how to start dating from calm, not chaos.

Krista Lachapelle
May 142 min read
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Almost Relationships Hurt More Than Breakups: Here’s Why
Still stuck in a situationship that never had closure? Here’s why your nervous system keeps replaying it, and how to let go with clarity.

Krista Lachapelle
May 132 min read
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Texting Isn’t Just Texting. It’s Emotional Energy
Texting is how we talk now, and how we build emotional connection. Here's why thoughtful messaging matters in modern relationships, and how to do it with clarity and care.

Krista Lachapelle
May 112 min read
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Love Like a Rescue Dog: Healing, Trust, and Choosing Love Again
Rescue dogs don’t love easily. They’ve been through things. But when they do choose to love you, it’s with a heart that has known fear, loss, and pain, and still leans in. Just like us. This post is for every woman learning to trust again, who’s been hurt but still has hope. Because loving like a rescue dog means loving bravely, not perfectly.

Krista Lachapelle
May 52 min read
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🌿 Why Love Feels So Hard. And Why It’s Not Your Fault
If you’ve ever found yourself fighting for connection, overthinking every text, or giving too much just to feel loved, it’s not because you’re bad at love. It’s because your nervous system learned that love could feel dangerous. You don’t need to be fixed. You need safety, self-trust, and love that feels like home. I wrote more about this on the blog today. 🌿

Krista Lachapelle
Apr 292 min read
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What Each Attachment Style Should Look for in a Relationship (Including Friendships)
Not all relationships feel safe, especially when your nervous system is wired for survival, not connection. This post explores what each attachment style should actually look for in relationships, including friendships. Because healing isn’t about finding perfect people. It’s about finding relationships that help you feel calm, seen, and safe enough to grow.

Krista Lachapelle
Apr 173 min read
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